Because of past experiences I have learned that anger is one of the largest wastes of time there is. Guilt, anger, regret, worrying…wastes of time.
We never know if this is the last conversation we may have with someone. I don’t even like to go to sleep after a disagreement with my husband without making sure he knows that I am not mad. Maybe a bit frustrated but not mad.
Same with my son, my friends, my mom…I don’t even allow myself to put a horse up if I’m mad. Anger is my problem, not theirs.
So what would I do? If my friend had been in an accident?
I would run to wherever they were, fly if I had to…and hug them and hold their hand and pray for them. I hope they would do that for me.